Golden Birthday

This year it’s my Golden Birthday – turning 27 on the 27th. It only happens once in a lifetime, but then again, technically, doesn’t every day only happen once in a lifetime?

A year ago today, I had no idea what the future held, but I’m pretty sure I pictured turning 27 in a much different context. Not necessarily better, but definitely different. A lot can happen in a year. A month ago, I was dreading turning 27 because I felt like I haven’t accomplished all the things that I thought I would’ve done by now.

I’m starting to realize at 27, when people ask the million-dollar question, “What do you want to do in life?”, they actually start expecting serious answers. No longer do you get the chuckle and the response, “Oh, but you still have so much time,” when you say you don’t know. That doesn’t really fly anymore.

But since today is a joyous occasion, I’m going to list all of the things that I have done in with my life thus far. And because lists are fun.

  • Graduated college (five years ago!!)
  • Moved to Taiwan just because
  • Lived in said foreign country for two years, and living like a diva no less
  • Moved to Hawaii just because
  • Traveled all around the island and fell hard in love with it
  • Got a real job and got started on a path to a potential career
  • Stayed in touch with my close friends from high school and college
  • Made lots of new friends all over the world
  • Traveled to Europe
  • Traveled to Japan
  • Traveled back to Hawaii multiple times since I’ve left
  • Eaten my way around the world
  • And yet, still managed to drop 2 pant sizes (this is recent, and I’m really proud of this one!)

Today, I turn 27 in a new city that I’m starting to fall in love with, living with the best roommates, surrounded with the love of family and friends that have stood with me through all the turbulence and nomadic decisions, and most importantly, I turn 27 with renewed feelings of ambition, humility, gratefulness, and faith for the future. It’s going to be a good year.

I am a part of all that I have met

The weather is cold here in SF. If you ask me how I’m liking the city, I will always bring up how I hate how cold it is. Summers in Nashville and Taipei, and living in paradise have spoiled me.

It’s cold enough to make you want to stay in bed, trying to keep the heat in. I don’t think our heater works. That doesn’t help.

On this chilly Sunday, I’m in a poetic kind of mood. I saw Skyfall yesterday, and it was as great as everyone says it is. When was the last time a movie quoted poetry? Anyways, I went a-hunting and found the entire thing. It’s a good one, and I’ve been in need of inspiration lately. Inspiration to keep moving, to stay active, to pursue passions, to carve my place here in this new city.

Alfred,Lord Tennyson : Ulysses

It little profits that an idle king1,
By this still hearth, among these barren crags,
Matched with an agèd wife, I mete and dole
Unequal laws unto a savage race,
That hoard, and sleep, and feed, and know not me.

I cannot rest from travel: I will drink
Life to the lees: all times I have enjoyed
Greatly, have suffered greatly, both with those
That loved me, and alone; on shore, and when
Through scudding drifts the rainy Hyades2
Vexed the dim sea: I am become a name;
For always roaming with a hungry heart
Much have I seen and known; cities of men
And manners, climates, councils, governments,
Myself not least, but honoured of them all;
And drunk delight of battle with my peers,
Far on the ringing plains of windy Troy3.
I am a part of all that I have met;
Yet all experience is an arch wherethrough
Gleams that untravelled world, whose margin fades
For ever and for ever when I move.
How dull it is to pause, to make an end,
To rust unburnished, not to shine in use!
As though to breathe were life. Life piled on life
Were all too little, and of one to me
Little remains: but every hour is saved
From that eternal silence, something more,
A bringer of new things; and vile it were
For some three suns to store and hoard myself,
And this grey spirit yearning in desire
To follow knowledge like a sinking star,
Beyond the utmost bound of human thought.

	This my son, mine own Telemachus,
To whom I leave the sceptre and the isle—
Well-loved of me, discerning to fulfil
This labour, by slow prudence to make mild
A rugged people, and through soft degrees
Subdue them to the useful and the good.
Most blameless is he, centred in the sphere
Of common duties, decent not to fail
In offices of tenderness, and pay
Meet adoration to my household gods,
When I am gone. He works his work, I mine.

	There lies the port; the vessel puffs her sail:
There gloom the dark broad seas. My mariners,
Souls that have toiled, and wrought, and thought
	with me—
That ever with a frolic welcome took
The thunder and the sunshine, and opposed
Free hearts, free foreheads—you and I are old;
Old age hath yet his honour and his toil;
Death closes all: but something ere the end,
Some work of noble note, may yet be done,
Not unbecoming men that strove with Gods.
The lights begin to twinkle from the rocks:
The long day wanes: the slow moon climbs: the deep
Moans round with many voices. Come, my friends,
'Tis not too late to seek a newer world.
Push off, and sitting well in order smite
The sounding furrows; for my purpose holds
To sail beyond the sunset, and the baths
Of all the western stars, until I die.
It may be that the gulfs will wash us down:
It may be we shall touch the Happy Isles4,
And see the great Achilles5, whom we knew
Though much is taken, much abides; and though
We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven; that which we are, we are;
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.

Throwback Hawaii: Wiliwilinui Swing

One of the most memorable things we did in Hawaii was making swings and tying them up in random places. The inspiration was from the original swing on Mt. Tantalus, which was taken down shortly after we visited it, and a plain board put up months later.My friends decided to put up our own swings in some of our favorite places on the island. This one we tied up on the Wiliwilinui Ridge hike in Hawaii Kai. It’s not a hard hike, but you do have to put some effort into it, and the reward at the top is completely worth it. There’s a really good descriptive blog post about the hike here:

WILIWILINUI RIDGE TRAIL: AN INTRODUCTORY HAWAII RIDGE HIKE

But this is the story behind the swing.

And if you do look under the swing, there would be a map with X marking the spots of the other swings around the island that we put up. Unfortunately, according to the most recent Yelp posts, it seems like this swing is no longer there. We do know that the first swing at Diamond Head beach was taken shortly after we put it up, but there is one more on the North Shore, which I’m hoping is still there. At the very least, I hope our swing is decorating someone’s living room mantle at the moment, even though we had meant to share this little piece of ourselves with all those who ventured down the same path.

Vandy Girls Forever

When you move to a different city every year, it’s really hard to make new friends, especially if you’re not in school anymore. And if you actually do make new friends, it’s even harder to be really good friends and stay in touch once you leave again.

I’m really lucky to have a group of girlfriends that will visit me no matter what city/country/continent I’m in. My college roommates from Vandy, after one very short year of living together, are one of the best things that have ever happened to me.

They visited me while I was living in Taiwan (making pit stops during honeymoons and family vacations!), and this past weekend, they flew to San Francisco for another amazing reunion. We spent the entire weekend catching up, eating, exploring SF, eating, sleepovers, eating, biking, oh and did I mention eating?

Let me tell (and show) you how much four tiny Asian girls can eat.

Friday night -

  • Dinner at Akiko’s – amazing sushi
  • Muka, a dessert lounge – pitcher of sangria and four desserts
Saturday - 
  • Japanese Sweets – pre-breakfast snack
  • Farmer’s Market – brunch
  • Polk St. Festival – street food
  • Mooncakes – snack
  • Dinner at Limon – peruvian food, amazing chicken and ceviche
  • Bi-Rite Ice Cream – dessert
Sunday - 
  • City View Dim Sum – brunch
  • Sweetheart Cafe (before bike ride) - bubble tea
  • Sweetheart Cafe (after bike ride) - bubble tea, popcorn chicken, mango shaved ice
  • Mission Chinese Food – dinner
  • Tres Leches birthday cake – dessert

Moving to a different city is always terrifying and daunting as much as it is exhilarating and adventurous, but to have a sense of familiarity and stability among all the change and newness is really comforting. Seeing these beautiful faces in my new city makes SF feel a bit more like home.

Labor Day Weekend

My brother visited me (and brought me the rest of my stuff) for Labor Day Weekend. We spent most of the time eating at good places and biking around the city.

We rented bikes for $36 apiece a day. (Side note: I went again the next weekend with a female co-worker, rented from the same company and for the same amount of time, and was only charged $14 each. Just girls definitely has its perks.)

But I digress. We biked from the Ferry building along the northern coast to the Golden Gate Bridge (which was covered in fog so we could barely see it!), over the bridge and into Sausalito, where it was really 10 degrees warmer. It was about an 8-mile bike ride with lots of stops to catch the scenery and to walk the bikes up the hills.

In Sausalito, we saw a boy catch a stingray by the side of the road and ate yummy burgers at the Napa Valley Burger Co., then we took a ferry back into San Francisco to return the bikes.

It’s always nice to hang out with the little brother, especially now that he’s a working man and picks up the check now!

La gente está muy loca

As fate would have it, there was a bank holiday while I was in London so I booked a last-minute ticket to Spain for the three-day weekend. I majored in Spanish in college. I love the culture (both European and Latin American) and the language, and I’ve NEVER been to a Spanish-speaking country.

Have you ever wanted to do something so bad for a really long time, and then the stars align, and then it just happens, with no warning or precedence? Can you imagine my excitement?? Visiting Barcelona was literally a dream come true.

I luckily had a friend in this city as well, so after stepping off the plane, we spent the afternoon laying out by her rooftop pool in sunny 80-degree weather. Then dinnertime at 10pm, which is totally a normal Spanish thing to do, at a lovely restaurant, Agua, in ocean-side Barceloneta.

When in Spain, gotta try the ham.

We finished dinner around 1am, again which is totally a normal Spanish occurrence. And since it was close by, we were going to just walk by and check out the strip of bars and clubs at Port Olympic before we headed home since I was pretty tired from getting over my recent illness and still a bit jet-lagged.

Alas, when in Barcelona, do as the barcelonés do.. and go bar-hopping. (Well, not so much the natives, in this area, it was mostly the tourists, but you get the point.) We ended up just stopping in at all the different bars and clubs – Techno, Hip-hop, Pop, Electronica, Irish bars, Salsa, Naughty nurses and doctors-themed… you name it, they had it, we saw it.

European men are very in-your-face and grabby. They grab arms, waists, touch your face, there are no limits. It’s constant ducking and dodging and slipping through grasps while using your girlfriends as bodyguards. One guy, as he was walking by, put his hand on my cheek, and goes “Chinitaaaa” accompanied by a big grin. In my head, I automatically translated it as little Chinese person, which it technically is. But my Spanish friend immediately saw my wheels turning and exclaimed, Don’t worry! It’s a term of endearment!

Basically, anything with -ita (little/smallness) at the end of it in Spanish is a term of endearment. Gordita. (little fattie) Mamacita. (little mama). Chiquita. (little woman). A chinese person would be chino in Spanish, therefore chinita. So if you’re ever in a Spanish-speaking country, and someone calls you something that you may think is racial or offensive, but there’s an -ita at the end of it, it’s ok! They’re just calling you what it is because there’s no need to sugar-coat or PC it, but they really do mean it with love and affection.

Anyways, the normal Spanish thing in 24-hour all day, all night Barcelona is to stay up til the next day and go straight to brunch. But as a tourist, I waved my white flag at 5am and went to bed.

But brunch was definitely had the next day (at 2pm)

at this place in the neighborhood Gràcia

Then we went to the beach club Mac Arena Mar and drank piña coladas on cabana beds while a DJ pulsed techno music until the sun went down.

P.S. The title is from a song that kept playing at the clubs. I think it sums up weekends in Barcelona for most people, including this one.

London

I moved to San Fran at the end of July, but I’ve actually been in the city only a total of 12 days so far. During my second week in New York on a Wednesday, I was told I was flying to London on Friday instead of flying back to SF. Surprise!

London! That’s in Europe, you know.
All expenses paid! It was for work.
Two weeks! Yes, most of it would be spent working, but I still get two weekends.

London was everything I imagined it to be. Double decker buses. European buildings. Small roads. And oh, the British accents.

The weather was fabulous the weekend I arrived. It was sunny and warm, and not at all the gloomy and rainy London I was expecting. And the British people were all perfectly nice and helpful, re: the below.

(Seriously though, if it weren’t for these signs, I probably would’ve been hit by one of those double decker buses driven by a guy with a British accent on those small roads full of European buildings within the first hour.)

It also happened to be my cousin’s last week in London, since he’d been studying English there for the past year, so I had a friend in the city to show me all the touristy sites and how Londoners party. I met his friends, and they were all Asians with British accents.. how cool is that?!

Unfortunately, I got really sick during that first week, most likely from all the partying travelling, jet-lag, wonky sleep schedules, and just being in a foreign land. I had to go to the emergency room, was told the wait was 3 hours because it’s NHS (National Health Service which is free for UK residents), actually waited the 3 hours until 3 in the morning, saw a really nice doctor who prescribed some antibiotics, and then walked away without paying a pence. (Because it’s NHS – travellers get free emergency treatment. Did I mention they were a really nice and helpful country?)

I ended up taking a day off work to sleep for 24 hours, got better, and spent the rest of the trip working and eating.